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How to Thrive During Tough Times

As an entrepreneur, being your own boss can be a joy and a burden. You are responsible for tough decisions about how to stay relevant in the marketplace, when to take on more debt, or how to handle an economic downturn. It is never smooth sailing, so learning to thrive and grow in difficult situations is essential to your success.

"We don't talk about struggle enough," says Steven Snyder, author of Leadership and the Art of Struggle (Berrett-Koehler, 2013). "We deny it and treat it as a taboo topic. That forces people to become embarrassed about it."

When leaders push emotional or professional challenges under the rug, those unaddressed feelings plant a seed of self doubt. That leads to low confidence, self-comparison, and diminished faith in your ability to handle future trials -- a toxic combination.

On the other hand, if those challenges are addressed, leaders begin to flourish. "Struggle and leadership are intertwined," Snyder says. "Challenges create the opportunity for leadership growth."

To conquer difficult situations and grow your business, prepare yourself to handle the challenge mentally and emotionally. Here are three tips to help you do that::

1. Build self-awareness.

Every leader faces constant struggles, but problems arise when fear and self-doubt take over. To prevent that from happening, be mindful of your emotional state. "If you can really pay attention to your fears and deal with them, then you can be so much more effective," Snyder says.

To become aware of your fears, look for signs of resistance or displaced anger. You might be procrastinating on a decision, arguing without listening to the other side, or lashing out at your family. Ask yourself, what is really going on here? What do I fear will happen? What am I telling myself about this situation, and is it productive? By building that awareness, you regain control of the situation.

2. Trust your ability to learn.

Those who conquer challenges most effectively hold a firm belief that they can learn and grow, adapting to handle any situation. They shun the idea of innate talent in favor of hard work and hunger to learn. That attitude helps them handle tough challenges in stride.

When you face a difficult situation, remind yourself that you can change and improve. "Ask yourself, what can I do proactively in this situation to really make the best out of it?" Snyder says. If you are humble about your knowledge gaps and optimistic about your potential to grow, then struggles will be opportunities to become a better leader.

3. Be ready to reinvent yourself.

Struggles are moments that demand change, so any good leader must be adaptable in order to persevere. "You have to recognize that what led to success before may not lead you to success in the future," Snyder says.

In order to thrive, you may have to make significant changes to your leadership style or your business. To embrace that flexibility, remember your mission and the passion you have for your work. By focusing on the end goal, you can start to detach yourself from any one way of getting there, allowing more freedom to explore different means to the same end. "That adaptive energy unleashes our greatest potential," Snyder says, empowering you to overcome any challenge and thrive in the face of struggle.

Nadia Goodman is a freelance writer in Brooklyn, NY. She is a former editor at YouBeauty.com, where she wrote about the psychology of health and beauty. She earned a B.A. in English from Northwestern University and an M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University. Visit her website, nadiagoodman.com

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7 Great Pieces of Career Advice No One Ever Told You

Career advice is in no short supply. In fact, you could probably spend the duration of your working life simply reading through the tips and advice already online. But as in all areas of life, the more common something is, generally speaking, the lower its value.

Many oft repeated truisms are more about wish fulfillment than reality (sorry peddlers of endless, uncritical "follow your passion!" posts). Plus, tips that everyone and their mother (and their college career counselor) knows are unlikely to give you an edge over the competition. So what are the true hidden gems of career advice, the truths that few people are willing to say out loud that can actually transform a mediocre career into a rockstar one?

That's what a someone on question-and-answer site Quora wanted to know recently, asking: "What are a few unique pieces of career advice that nobody ever mentions?" The community responded with plenty of uncommon, thought-provoking advice.

Doing Your Job Well Is Not Enough

Being excellent at your job is a surefire way to get ahead, right? Nope, say several responders, including Victor Wong, CEO of PaperG. "Most people assume just doing their current assigned job well is enough--so many associates at law firms think doing all the paperwork and litigation properly is the road to partnership, and many PR account executives think that getting a few articles written about their clients will earn them a promotion," he writes, but "becoming a principal, partner, or senior executive with P&L-level responsibility requires a completely separate set of skills from entry and mid-level jobs."

How do you make that leap? "To make the big jump to the next level, they're really being benchmarked on their ability to deliver future value to the firm in ways that are not taught or explained to them: chiefly how much business are they are able to bring in," he asserts. "People who can think of what to do and deliver are the ones who ultimately are more likely to get promoted to the top levels."

Another anonymous poster agrees: "You don't become a star doing your job. You become a star making things happen."

Who You Work For Is Hugely Important

We all wish we lived in a world where who you know matters less than what you can do, but that's often not reality, and not always for unhealthy reasons. Knowing the best in the business often means you've worked with the best, and people rightly admire that.

"You don't have to be passionate about the product you are selling. You don't have to be in the most glamorous industry. You don't have to work for the company with the best 'brand' identity or reputation in your chosen field," insists Jeremy Boudinet, director of marketing for startup Ambition. What does matter is who you've worked with.

"Few things are as valuable as going and working for somebody that is going to want to teach you anything and everything they know. You'll experience tremendous personal and professional growth if you have the best person mentoring you," he says, so "figure out where the absolute best person to work for would be, and go work for them."

... So Is Where You Work

Just like who you work for can deeply affect the fate of your career, where you work also has a massive impact. Just saying, 'I want to work in software or sales,' isn't enough. Nor, as Boudinet point out, is it enough just to fill your resume with impressive company names. Your destiny is influenced greatly by the destiny of the particular organization that employs you. Don't take a job with just any old company because it's in the right sector or impresses your friends.

"Your career is a boat and it is at the mercy of tides. No matter how talented you are it's a lot harder to break out in a sluggish situation/hierarchy/economy than a go-go environment. Even if you're a superstar at Sluggish Co., your upside trajectory (more often than not) is fractional to what an average/below average employee achieves at Rocket Ship Co," says an anonymous poster with the most up-voted answer.

Being Seen as Super Busy Isn't Always a Good Thing

Think high achievers work endless hours and are continuously busy? Think again, writes Mira Zaslove, director of international sales and trading at FabExchange. "Ironically the busier you appear, often the less you will move up. I've seen smart and dedicated employees fail to get promoted, because they have taken on too much, are working too hard, and appeared too frazzled," she reports. "If you appear stressed, people will think you aren't prepared to take on more, and you'll miss opportunities for new and innovative projects."

Take a Tour

When plotting your first (or next) big career move, many of us think very abstractly, musing in solitude or in front of Google about the joys of our supposed dream jobs. But the truth is you can't decide on a career without seeing the day-to-day reality of where and how you work--the concrete truth rather than the imagined reality. Don't make decisions without actually going and seeing for yourself.

Alek Mirkovich, founder of campayn.com, once thought becoming an air traffic controller was a great idea, but then he took a tour of where he would actually be working. "Every single guy was BALD! Playing around with a simulator is fun but apparently the real thing is stressful. Within 30 seconds I knew I wasn't going to be signing up for this!" he remembers.

Don't Hide Your Failures

Failures are seen less as a signal of incompetence and more as a sign that you're willing to take a risk and innovate, according to Zaslove. "Your team will respect you and your career will accelerate if people understand what you are doing and that you are taking risks. Most people do not view someone as credible if they are giving advice and recommendations, but not walking the walk," she claims. "If you show that you are willing to take risks, and publicly falter, your team will feel confident taking risks too. Lead by example."

Execution Matters More Than Plans or Advice

Many people are looking for the magic recipe of how to make their career take off, but many of the responders agree that there are some serious limits to what other people can tell you. "Advice (like ideas) is not in short supply, there is plenty of it going around," writes coach Darren Beattie, for instance. "It's not really the advice in the long run that matters, it's the execution of the advice by the person being advised. The greatest advice ever in the history of the human race is absolutely useless if you act/execute on none of it."

Or to put it another way, there's no real roadmap that you can blindly follow. The trick is figuring out what to apply and what to ignore for your own personal situation. That same popular anonymous responder sums this idea up well: "Career tracks and meritocracies don't exist: Your career is not a linear, clearly defined trajectory."

What less well known bit of career wisdom would you add to this list? 



Jessica Stillman is a freelance writer based in London with interests in unconventional career paths, generational differences, and the future of work. She has blogged for CBS MoneyWatch, GigaOM, and Brazen Careerist.

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10 Small Things You Can Do Every Day to Get Smarter

Intelligence is a work in progress. Maximize yours with these simple habits.

You might be under the impression that intelligence is a fixed quantity set when you are young and unchanging thereafter. But research shows that you're wrong. How we approach situations and the things we do to feed our brains can significantly improve our mental horsepower.
That could mean going back to school or fillingng your bookshelves (or e-reader) with thick tomes on deep subjects, but getting smarter doesn't necessarily mean a huge commitment of time and energy, according to a recent thread on question-and-answer site Quora.
When a questioner keen on self-improvement asked the community, "What would you do to be a little smarter every single day?" lots of readers--including dedicated meditators, techies, and entrepreneurs--weighed in with useful suggestions. Which of these 10 ideas can you fit into your daily routine?

1. Be smarter about your online time. 

Every online break doesn't have to be about checking social networks and fulfilling your daily ration of cute animal pics. The Web is also full of great learning resources, such as online courses, intriguing TED talks, and vocabulary-building tools. Replace a few minutes of skateboarding dogs with something more mentally nourishing, suggest several responders.

2. Write down what you learn.

It doesn't have to be pretty or long, but taking a few minutes each day to reflect in writing about what you learned is sure to boost your brainpower. "Write 400 words a day on things that you learned," suggests yoga teacher Claudia Azula Altucher. Mike Xie, a research associate at Bayside Biosciences, agrees: "Write about what you've learned."

3. Make a 'did' list.

A big part of intelligence is confidence and happiness, so boost both by pausing to list not the things you have yet to do, but rather all the things you've already accomplished. The idea of a "done list" is recommended by famed VC Marc Andreessen as well as Azula Altucher. "Make an I DID list to show all the things you, in fact, accomplished," she suggests.

4. Get out the Scrabble board.

Board games and puzzles aren't just fun but also a great way to work out your brain. "Play games (Scrabble, bridge, chess, Go, Battleship, Connect 4, doesn't matter)," suggests Xie (for a ninja-level brain boost, exercise your working memory by trying to play without looking at the board). "Play Scrabble with no help from hints or books," concurs Azula Altucher.

5. Have smart friends.

It can be rough on your self-esteem, but hanging out with folks who are more clever than you is one of the fastest ways to learn. "Keep a smart company. Remember your IQ is the average of five closest people you hang out with," Saurabh Shah, an account manager at Symphony Teleca, writes.

"Surround yourself with smarter people," agrees developer Manas J. Saloi. "I try to spend as much time as I can with my tech leads. I have never had a problem accepting that I am an average coder at best and there are many things I am yet to learn…Always be humble and be willing to learn."

6. Read a lot.

OK, this is not a shocker, but it was the most common response: Reading definitely seems essential. Opinions vary on what's the best brain-boosting reading material, with suggestions ranging from developing a daily newspaper habit to picking up a variety of fiction and nonfiction, but everyone seems to agree that quantity is important. Read a lot.

7. Explain it to others. 

"If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough," Albert Einstein said. The Quora posters agree. Make sure you've really learned what you think you have learned and that the information is truly stuck in your memory by trying to teach it to others. "Make sure you can explain it to someone else," Xie says simply.

Student Jon Packles elaborates on this idea: "For everything you learn--big or small--stick with it for at least as long as it takes you to be able to explain it to a friend. It's fairly easy to learn new information. Being able to retain that information and teach others is far more valuable."

8. Do random new things. 

Shane Parrish, keeper of the consistently fascinating Farnam Street blog, tells the story of Steve Jobs' youthful calligraphy class in his response on Quora. After dropping out of school, the future Apple founder had a lot of time on his hands and wandered into a calligraphy course. It seemed irrelevant at the time, but the design skills he learned were later baked into the first Macs. The takeaway: You never know what will be useful ahead of time. You just need to try new things and wait to see how they connect with the rest of your experiences later on.

"You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future," Parrish quotes Jobs as saying. In order to have dots to connect, you need to be willing to try new things--even if they don't seem immediately useful or productive.

9. Learn a new language. 

No, you don't need to become quickly fluent or trot off to a foreign country to master the language of your choosing. You can work away steadily from the comfort of your desk and still reap the mental rewards. "Learn a new language. There are a lot of free sites for that. Use Livemocha or Busuu," says Saloi (personally, I'm a big fan of Memrise once you have the basic mechanics of a new language down).

10. Take some downtime.

It's no surprise that dedicated meditator Azula Altucher recommends giving yourself space for your brain to process what it's learned--"sit in silence daily," she writes--but she's not the only responder who stresses the need to take some downtime from mental stimulation. Spend some time just thinking, suggests retired cop Rick Bruno. He pauses the interior chatter while exercising. "I think about things while I run (almost every day)," he reports.

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3 No-Nonsense Tips For Promoting Yourself or Your Business

What your college nightlife experiences can teach you about business and the art of self-promotion.

Remember back in college when you'd get ready to go out for a night with your friends? More often than not you'd spend way longer than you needed getting ready, picking out your outfit, doing your hair, etc: all to showcase the most attractive version of yourself.

When you'd get wherever you were going, you'd try talking to people you were interested in. Sometimes you'd fail miserably. Sometimes you'd get a phone number. And sometimes, you'd take that person home and celebrate victory with your friends the next day.

The thing you probably didn't realize is that you were promoting yourself, just like you'd promote your business, your product or service, your book, etc. There would be countless nights of rejection or missed opportunities. There would be exciting nights with success and fun. Either way, promoting yourself to other people was an ever-evolving process with ups and downs galore. Self-promotion of your business, product, book, etc, is no different.

Here are three tips to help you promote yourself in the crowded digital landscape we live in. These are things I've done over and over again, and have helped me create successful and profitable online businesses that have made me over a million dollars and reached millions of people.

Tip #1: Create your Value Proposition

This is the foundation to whatever you are promoting. If it's your most recent book, what value will it bring someone else? How will it help them in their lives? What tangible benefits will they receive if they read it? Answer these questions for anything you're working on and use them in all marketing materials.

Just like you would know your pitch to someone in a crowded bar, you should know how to describe yourself or your business to anyone in any situation.

Tip #2: Analyze and Adjust

My friend Greg Hartle coined this little phrase and I've done it for years without being able to explain it so eloquently. Whatever you're trying to get attention for, you constantly need to be analyzing and adjusting your messaging. You need to be analyzing feedback from potential customers and adjusting your offering to get them to buy your stuff. You aren't going to get things right the first time and that's okay.

Tip #3: In-person is Always Better

It's nearly impossible to build a deep human connection with someone on social media, especially with how short our attention spans are getting.  Being in the same place with people and having relatable conversions with them will build a layer of trust that simply can't be built through interactions online. In-person connections last a lifetime, online connections last only as long as it takes for a newsfeed to refresh.

Whatever the thing is you're trying to promote, remember how much trial and error you went through back in college to meet other people. Some of those people you're probably still connected with today. You used these three tips without even knowing it; so now apply them to your business and self-promotion efforts.


JASON SURFRAPP | Columnist
Jason Surfrapp is the founder of IWearYourShirt.com. His new book, Creativity For Sale, is an in-depth look at how to turn passion into profit.

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The Incredibly Simple Secret to Employee Happiness

Employee surveys are useless, if the employees don't think you're listening and reacting. Here's how to send the message--bite by bite--that you're attentive to their feedback.

There's an old saying that cobbler's children go unshod. The idea--and the dilemma--is that cobblers are too busy mending others' soles to worry about the heels under their own roof.
So if your startup sells software helping companies create happy employees, well--you know the rest: You better make sure your own employees are happy too.

For David Niu, serial entrepreneur and founder of TINYhr, avoiding the cobbler's dilemma should not be a problem. For one thing, the two-year-old Seattle-based startup has just 10 employees. Yes, they use their own software, but at this point Niu can keep tabs the old-fashioned way: By walking around, asking questions, and listening. Still, the software helps. From it, he once learned that his employees didn't like the brand of pretzels he kept in the kitchen. So he changed it.

Crunchy and innocuous as it may seem, pretzel-gate epitomizes much of what Niu has learned at the helm of TINYhr. You can automate the surveying and processing of employee dislikes, but the human touch--listening, empathizing, reacting--is usually required to effect real change, once employees tell you the truth about what's bugging them.

The Power of Bite-Sized Anonymity

Empathy means "the ability to understand and share the feelings of another," but leaders struggle with it for one obvious reason: They've lost touch with the quotidien pain points of non-leaders. Topics seemingly unconnected to bottom-line goals--say, delays in reimbursement for pricey flights or a dearth of gluten-free snacks in the kitchen--can create resentments. Those resentments blossom into dissatisfaction when leaders proclaim empathy yet behave with indifference.

This problem is easy to identify but hard to solve. As authors Reid Hoffman, Ben Casnocha and Chris Yeh point out in The Alliance: Managing Talent in the Networked Age, employees are typically abashed about sharing gripes. Vulnerability is a two-way street. The last thing any employee wants to do is complain to a boss who might call him a complainer. "Historically employees feel they have to be very guarded around their manager and the company in general," Yeh told me.

For Niu, 40, the solution was an uncompromising promise of anonymity. If employees could vent without fear of being judged, employers could get closer to assessing and improving employee happiness. So Niu designed TINYpulse, the company's inaugural product, to anonymously ask employees one question at a time, once a week, through an email with a unique link. The piecemeal approach means employers aren't overwhelmed with feedback. Each week brings a subject-specific morsel to act on.

Niu embraces this piecemeal approach for several reasons. The first is from his own history. Before becoming an entrepreneur, he worked as a consultant in Andersen Consulting's Strategy Group. There, he advised Fortune 500 clients on strategy and implementation. So he got a firsthand sense of how difficult it can be to implement changes of varying scopes and sizes. And at the end of each year, in what he calls an "antiquated approach," he had to answer 50 online survey questions about his happiness as an Andersen employee. "You hit submit," he says, "and you never know what happens to it."

The Careercation of a Lifetime

That was his first inkling that a piecemeal approach--one question, weekly, rather than a boatload of questions, annually--might be more fruitful for both employees and employers. Another inkling came about three years ago. Burned out from the entrepreneurial life, he sold most of his belongings, crammed his remaining possessions into a storage facility, and bought one-way tickets to New Zealand for his wife and then-10-month-old daughter.

You can take the entrepreneur out of his environment, but you can't stop him from thinking about business ideas. Though he was feeling things for the first time, as a father and untethered global traveler, Niu's thoughts were rarely far from best practices. He found himself interviewing entrepreneurs of all stripes, hoping to discover their pain points.

There was the winemaker in New Zealand. At another stop, there was the fruit trader in Shanghai. Later, there was the financial services entrepreneur in Seoul. Niu listened to their problems like someone who had all the time in the world. He made tons of what he calls "mental sticky notes." He felt as if they opened up to him more because he was listening as an interested person, not (necessarily) as an idea monger.

The longer the "careercation" lasted, the better he got at listening. "I could see regardless of where a company was located or its size, the most common complaint was when an employee would say, 'Here's my two week's notice,' out of the blue," he says. The entrepreneurs wondered: Why didn't I see it coming? Then there was the secondary shock: The problem of filling the role, by finding someone new or training someone in-house.

Turning Down "Tier One" VCs

Niu's careercation lessons inspired the launch of TINYhr. They also became the basis for one of his company's most persuasive pieces of content, a free e-book called Careercation. TINYhr is constantly finding smart ways to package and market its insights on employee engagement. Next week, it's releasing The Advanced Guide to Employee Surveys, based on the 250,000 surveys the company has conducted so far.

Currently TINYhr has more than 500 customers--mostly small and midsized businesses--in a variety of verticals. A second product called CLIENTpulse grew out of what Niu learned from his initial batch of customers. They loved TINYpulse, and wanted something just like it that could efficiently gather customer feedback, in the same way TINYpulse gathered employee feedback. From such client-pleasing pivots, growth companies are born.

Venture capitalists have noticed the traction of TINYhr's two products. Niu says that "tier one" VCs have asked to meet with him. So far, he's turned them down. His mentees in Seattle's TechStars program often ask him why. His main reason is that fundraising is a time drain. He is also far from desperate for the cash. With more than 500 customers, he can support the company through recurring monthly revenues. Sure, he might eventually welcome investors, but it will be on his terms and timetable.

What he tells VCs, when they ask him to meet, is something like this: "I’m humbled by your interest, but [every minute I spend talking to you or thinking about terms is] one minute I'm not delighting my customers."

Niu says about half of the VCs who approach him appreciate that response. The other half are indignant. He keeps track of it all in his own black book. "If I do raise money," he says, then the indignant type is "not somoene I’m going to talk to."

Fatherhood, VCs, and Animals

Turning down VC money is one advantage Niu has as a serial entrepreneur. He has founded companies before. He doesn't need the validation. He is a husband and a father. His self-identity hardly requires the prestige of prospective investors. And beyond all that, he's just being honest when he says he lacks the time to focus on fundraising. "It's a major time commitment, with all the hidden costs," he says, recalling previous sleepness nights obsessing over pitch decks.

That sense of security about who he is and what he's doing sometimes manifests itself in some suprising ways. Once, a client called him in disbelief that about one of TinyPulse's weekly questions: "If your organization was an animal, what would it be and why?" Such a soft, touchie-feelie question could've seemed embarrassing. It was the type of question that could make a client wonder: "Wait, we're paying for this?" But Niu knew the question would work and told the client to trust the process.

Sure enough, one week later, the client was thrilled. Employees were debating the question with vigor at the water cooler, making their cases for this animal or that one. Was the organization a lion, or a lion cub? Or was it an octopus, which is smart and crafty yet hides and doesn't have to be in the spotlight?

Here's the key takeaway: You can learn a lot about employee happiness from seemingly frivolous (but incredibly potent) questions.
The key is asking regularly, and acting on what you learn. Even if it just means changing the pretzels.

The Incredibly Simple Secret to Employee Happiness

Employee surveys are useless, if the employees don't think you're listening and reacting. Here's how to send the message--bite by bite--that you're attentive to their feedback.

There's an old saying that cobbler's children go unshod. The idea--and the dilemma--is that cobblers are too busy mending others' soles to worry about the heels under their own roof.
So if your startup sells software helping companies create happy employees, well--you know the rest: You better make sure your own employees are happy too.

For David Niu, serial entrepreneur and founder of TINYhr, avoiding the cobbler's dilemma should not be a problem. For one thing, the two-year-old Seattle-based startup has just 10 employees. Yes, they use their own software, but at this point Niu can keep tabs the old-fashioned way: By walking around, asking questions, and listening. Still, the software helps. From it, he once learned that his employees didn't like the brand of pretzels he kept in the kitchen. So he changed it.

Crunchy and innocuous as it may seem, pretzel-gate epitomizes much of what Niu has learned at the helm of TINYhr. You can automate the surveying and processing of employee dislikes, but the human touch--listening, empathizing, reacting--is usually required to effect real change, once employees tell you the truth about what's bugging them.

The Power of Bite-Sized Anonymity

Empathy means "the ability to understand and share the feelings of another," but leaders struggle with it for one obvious reason: They've lost touch with the quotidien pain points of non-leaders. Topics seemingly unconnected to bottom-line goals--say, delays in reimbursement for pricey flights or a dearth of gluten-free snacks in the kitchen--can create resentments. Those resentments blossom into dissatisfaction when leaders proclaim empathy yet behave with indifference.

This problem is easy to identify but hard to solve. As authors Reid Hoffman, Ben Casnocha and Chris Yeh point out in The Alliance: Managing Talent in the Networked Age, employees are typically abashed about sharing gripes. Vulnerability is a two-way street. The last thing any employee wants to do is complain to a boss who might call him a complainer. "Historically employees feel they have to be very guarded around their manager and the company in general," Yeh told me.

For Niu, 40, the solution was an uncompromising promise of anonymity. If employees could vent without fear of being judged, employers could get closer to assessing and improving employee happiness. So Niu designed TINYpulse, the company's inaugural product, to anonymously ask employees one question at a time, once a week, through an email with a unique link. The piecemeal approach means employers aren't overwhelmed with feedback. Each week brings a subject-specific morsel to act on.

Niu embraces this piecemeal approach for several reasons. The first is from his own history. Before becoming an entrepreneur, he worked as a consultant in Andersen Consulting's Strategy Group. There, he advised Fortune 500 clients on strategy and implementation. So he got a firsthand sense of how difficult it can be to implement changes of varying scopes and sizes. And at the end of each year, in what he calls an "antiquated approach," he had to answer 50 online survey questions about his happiness as an Andersen employee. "You hit submit," he says, "and you never know what happens to it."

The Careercation of a Lifetime

That was his first inkling that a piecemeal approach--one question, weekly, rather than a boatload of questions, annually--might be more fruitful for both employees and employers. Another inkling came about three years ago. Burned out from the entrepreneurial life, he sold most of his belongings, crammed his remaining possessions into a storage facility, and bought one-way tickets to New Zealand for his wife and then-10-month-old daughter.

You can take the entrepreneur out of his environment, but you can't stop him from thinking about business ideas. Though he was feeling things for the first time, as a father and untethered global traveler, Niu's thoughts were rarely far from best practices. He found himself interviewing entrepreneurs of all stripes, hoping to discover their pain points.

There was the winemaker in New Zealand. At another stop, there was the fruit trader in Shanghai. Later, there was the financial services entrepreneur in Seoul. Niu listened to their problems like someone who had all the time in the world. He made tons of what he calls "mental sticky notes." He felt as if they opened up to him more because he was listening as an interested person, not (necessarily) as an idea monger.

The longer the "careercation" lasted, the better he got at listening. "I could see regardless of where a company was located or its size, the most common complaint was when an employee would say, 'Here's my two week's notice,' out of the blue," he says. The entrepreneurs wondered: Why didn't I see it coming? Then there was the secondary shock: The problem of filling the role, by finding someone new or training someone in-house.

Turning Down "Tier One" VCs

Niu's careercation lessons inspired the launch of TINYhr. They also became the basis for one of his company's most persuasive pieces of content, a free e-book called Careercation. TINYhr is constantly finding smart ways to package and market its insights on employee engagement. Next week, it's releasing The Advanced Guide to Employee Surveys, based on the 250,000 surveys the company has conducted so far.

Currently TINYhr has more than 500 customers--mostly small and midsized businesses--in a variety of verticals. A second product called CLIENTpulse grew out of what Niu learned from his initial batch of customers. They loved TINYpulse, and wanted something just like it that could efficiently gather customer feedback, in the same way TINYpulse gathered employee feedback. From such client-pleasing pivots, growth companies are born.

Venture capitalists have noticed the traction of TINYhr's two products. Niu says that "tier one" VCs have asked to meet with him. So far, he's turned them down. His mentees in Seattle's TechStars program often ask him why. His main reason is that fundraising is a time drain. He is also far from desperate for the cash. With more than 500 customers, he can support the company through recurring monthly revenues. Sure, he might eventually welcome investors, but it will be on his terms and timetable.

What he tells VCs, when they ask him to meet, is something like this: "I’m humbled by your interest, but [every minute I spend talking to you or thinking about terms is] one minute I'm not delighting my customers."

Niu says about half of the VCs who approach him appreciate that response. The other half are indignant. He keeps track of it all in his own black book. "If I do raise money," he says, then the indignant type is "not somoene I’m going to talk to."

Fatherhood, VCs, and Animals

Turning down VC money is one advantage Niu has as a serial entrepreneur. He has founded companies before. He doesn't need the validation. He is a husband and a father. His self-identity hardly requires the prestige of prospective investors. And beyond all that, he's just being honest when he says he lacks the time to focus on fundraising. "It's a major time commitment, with all the hidden costs," he says, recalling previous sleepness nights obsessing over pitch decks.

That sense of security about who he is and what he's doing sometimes manifests itself in some suprising ways. Once, a client called him in disbelief that about one of TinyPulse's weekly questions: "If your organization was an animal, what would it be and why?" Such a soft, touchie-feelie question could've seemed embarrassing. It was the type of question that could make a client wonder: "Wait, we're paying for this?" But Niu knew the question would work and told the client to trust the process.

Sure enough, one week later, the client was thrilled. Employees were debating the question with vigor at the water cooler, making their cases for this animal or that one. Was the organization a lion, or a lion cub? Or was it an octopus, which is smart and crafty yet hides and doesn't have to be in the spotlight?

Here's the key takeaway: You can learn a lot about employee happiness from seemingly frivolous (but incredibly potent) questions.

The key is asking regularly, and acting on what you learn. Even if it just means changing the pretzels.

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6 Ways to Predict Your Future Happiness

Everyone is working toward something. But will your future bring happiness? Find out here.

So many people focus solely on the here and now. In fact, they get so caught up in the moment, they forget that the future lies ahead. They may think a little about the future, hoping that the right deal, promotion, or opportunity might come along. But often it's a fleeting thought or daydream.

There are telltale signs of heading down a path to happiness. And sure-fire signs when you are on the wrong track. With a little self-assessment and planning, you can get a sense of how to get to that happy and successful state you crave. See how you fit with these signs below.

1. You wake up excited about your career each morning.

If you struggle to get out of bed every day, it may be because there is no positive future on the horizon. Sure, everyone has frustrations or small anxieties about specific projects or issues, but if you have clarity and drive, you can work through any challenge. In fact, the bigger the challenges you happily tackle, the greater your future looks. You can see where you want to go, and have hopeful and confident expectation that you can get there.

2. You enjoy the company of the people around you. 

Are the people around you boring, mean, and driving you crazy? Do they seem lost and frustrated with their own lives? Your colleagues, friends, and loved ones should stimulate, support, and engage you. If the people in your life are inspiring and dynamic, you will be more likely to push for a brighter future. Find mentors and heroes who inspire and motivate you. You might have one or two irritating encounters each week, but if the humans you encounter strike you, by and large, as good and desirous company, you are on a solid path. If they don't, start over and get some new friends.

3. You learn something new every day. 

If you already know everything, you are bound for a life of cynicism and boredom. No one person has learned it all; plus, the act of learning itself creates a sense of joy and accomplishment. Go and learn something--maybe a small, interesting fact, or a piece of a major educational project--but do it every day. Research shows that people who keep learning also live longer, happier lives, with more mental acuity. You will also acquire knowledge, wisdom, and skills that will help you advance in your professional and personal life.

4. You know when to say yes and when to say no.

As Lewis Carroll suggested, if you don't know where you are going, then any road will take you there. In that case, saying yes or no is random and won't likely get you closer to success and happiness. A little planning for the future can give you enough sense to see a good opportunity and take it, even if you feel scared. You can also assess when you are unprepared, overcommitted, or heading down the wrong path. Then you can make the necessary corrections. Your yes and no decisions should be driven by self-awareness and a desire to be honest and fair, rather than a sense of obligation or guilt.

5. You keep an open mind. 

You have most likely encountered stubborn and curmudgeonly people who live a baneful existence. People who can't change their opinions or ideas end up unhappy, frustrated, and defensive. They have just as much ability to open up and change their point of view to one that works, but they choose not to. Being open doesn't mean you have to agree with everything that anyone else says. But if you are willing to consider other possibilities, you can assess, learn, and adopt creative solutions that can shorten your path to happiness and success.

6. You practice adaptability. 

Life is infinitely more complex than many people would have you believe. To successfully navigate business and society requires thousands of decisions, tons of energy, and an enormous amount of resilience. The greatest rewards generally stem from overcoming the biggest challenges. To reach that pinnacle of success, you need to intentionally find ways to roll with whatever life dishes up, whether it is a roadblock or an opportunity. Learn to say to yourself, "I can find a way to work with this" and then do it. Live up to Winston Churchill's advice to "Never, never, never give up."


KEVIN DAUM | Columnist
An Inc. 500 entrepreneur with a more than $1 billion sales and marketing track record, Kevin Daum is the best-selling author of Video Marketing for Dummies and the executive producer of Amilya! on 77WABC New York.
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An Instant Cure for Negativity

You can instantly change your perception of events so that they lift you up rather than drag you down.

Unless you've had your head stuck in the sand, you've probably run across the numerous best-selling books by Jon Gordon. I like all of his work, and his new book, The Carpenter is truly a must-read.

The Carpenter is an engaging parable of a high-powered entrepreneur who recaptures his sense of purpose through working with (and learning from) a blue-collar artisan. The highlight of the book, IMHO, is the following promise:
  • I vow to stay positive in the face of negativity;
  • When I am surrounded by pessimism, I will choose optimism;
  • When I feel fear, I will choose faith;
  • When I want to hate, I will choose love;
  • When I want to be bitter, I will choose to get better;
  • When I experience a challenge, I will look for an opportunity to learn and grow;
  • When I experience a setback, I will be resilient;
  • When I meet failure, I will fail forward, toward future success;
  • With vision, hope, and faith, I will never give up and will always move forward toward my destiny;
  • I believe my best days are ahead of me, not behind me;
  • I believe I'm here for a reason and my purpose is greater than my challenges;
  • I believe that being positive not only makes me better, it make everyone around me better;
  • So today and every day I will be positive and strive to make a positive impact on the world.
In the book, the titular carpenter reads this vow (and recommits to it) whenever he's "not feeling very positive." While that might seem a bit simplistic, it's not. There's real science behind the effectiveness of affirmations.

According to the latest neuroscience research, your experience of your life changes according to how you perceive and remember events. The vow above "edits" how you perceive events, so that they lift you up rather than drag you down.
There are two ways to use the vow:
  1. As a short-term remedy for the blues. Whenever you're feeling stressed, fearful, disappointed, or angry, read that promise to yourself. You'll immediately feel better and be better able to cope.
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  3. As a long-term recipe for success. Start your day by reading the vow aloud and you'll experience more joy, regardless of what the day brings you. Do this for at least two weeks and you'll "lock in" your positive attitude.
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